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Tuesday, February 22, 2011

T Minus 139 Days!

Until we are back in the good ole' US of A! Now, don't get me wrong. Korea has been a fabulous experience, better than fabulous, in all honesty I'd say life changing sums it up quite well. B and I have experienced so much growth both professionally and personally throughout this experience, and to say that we see the world through different eyes now is an understatement. Anyone who would ever ask me about moving with the military to Korea, or just in general visiting Korea, you would be certain to not get the scrunched face/nose look with the reply of "thats a 3rd world country...your out of your mind!"

 But today, Korea is not the topic of this post, this post is intended to for me to list a few things I am missing about the states and can.not.wait to get back too. So without futher ado here goes...

1) Houses, with yards. Grass and freshly planted flowers to be exact. B and I were talking this weekend about what he misses about the states and how we are SO not apartment people. My poor hubby will be so excited to get back behind a lawnmower, complete with bag mulcher of course, to trim the edges of the grass, and even to place the perfectly measured diagonal lines. (We won't tell him that our next duty station in AZ is in the desert!!)


2) Farmer's Markets. Nuff' Said. If you know anything about the produce selection in the commissary's (bless their hearts) here in Korea, you know what I'm talking about. 

3) In Store Shopping. Can I get a fitting room please?? Don't get me wrong, online is okay. But being here you have to calculate the shipping time and it is much more than the typical 2 to 4 days. Oh, and not every company ships to APO...

4) Worship. Sunday School. Small Groups. The chapel we attend here on post has a fabulous little service, and it has really pulled us through some tough weeks, and some great weeks. But, we are both really looking foward to getting back into a church with typical programming, and I am SO hoping to find a group of women for a women's weekly Bible study.

5) Friends and Family. With a 14 hr time difference (EST), and 17 hour plane ride. Long distance relationships are tough.

Just some thoughts on this bea-uti-ful Wednesday! I pray that the weather stays this nice for the next 3 weeks, our BN needs it! :) T-17 days until field exercise #4 and it's the, final 4 is complete in Korea!

XOXO from Korea!
Mrs. GC

Friday, February 18, 2011

MilSpouse Friday Fill-In


Hello Ya'll! From the Land of the Morning (Cold) Calm!! aka- Korea!!!
I have recently stumbled across a super cool blog, thanks to my real life and bloggy friend Megan over at peacock evolution; she is a super cool fellow MilSpouse friend of mine, with many talents including amature photography!! Go check her out, you won't be disappointed!! 
Okay, so back on topic! THANKS to Megan, I ran across another fellow MilSpouse over at Wife of a Sailor, who has this wonderful Friday fill in for us spouses! So of course, I had to join! This is my first week and I hope you will continue checking back each week for answers to these fun questions! So here goes... Enjoy!!

1)  What is your favorite MilSpouse blog (not including Wife of a Sailor who we all love, or your own)? Honestly, I really LoVe all of the blogs that I am following, but if you're making me choose just one I'd have to say I really enjoy Shay's blog over at The Nelson Diaries. She is a really energetic, fun loving gal who always has some great posts about life in general!   

2) What are your favorite perks about your s/o being deployed (we all know there are perks)? I must be honest and say that I've never experienced a deployment...YET, that is! I'm sure our turn is coming soon! Although, I have experienced my fair share of field exercises for weeks on end while being here in Korea. So the perks to those would be the following: I get extra time to myself (and let's face it we all need a little bit more of that), I can deep clean the house without any interruptions, hit the gym as much as I want, watch what I want on TV, there's no obligation to cook dinner nightly, and the old trusty saying of "distance makes the heart grow fonder", well it really does in our case. During the time he is gone, I think we both get the opportunity to reflect on our marriage and how important we are too each other, because the reunions are just exciting and it's like our love for each other sparkes even more than before he left!!! 

3) How long did you date your s/o before getting engaged? Married? We met during the summer between my sophmore and junior years of college. We dated and were engaged for a total of 2 1/2 years before we married, and as of this past December we have been married for 3 years!! WOW! Time is flying by!!

4)  What do you think your s/o would do if s/he wasn’t in the military? I think B would be doing 1 of 3 things: still working at the sales job he had before returning to active duty from the Army reserves, in school full time working on his bachelor's degree or working in law enforcement. 

5) If you could talk to the Secretary of (fill in your appropriate branch) what is one suggestion you would like to bring to their attention in order to improve the lives of military families? I would definately choose to speak with the Sect. of the Army, and I would want to bring awareness to the fact that I believe there should be mandatory trainings for MilSpouse's to take. These trainings should include some of the current courses offered by the Army including AFTB and Resiliency courses. I personally think that if spouses would equip themselves with the proper knowledge of how the military (Army) operates, it would make their day to day lives so much more fluid!

Till Next Time-

XOXO from Korea!!
-Mrs. GC

**You're Welcome, to those of you who I "shouted out" on my blog!!**





Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentine's Day 2011- Part I



Hey Ya'll!! I just wanted to stop in real quick and write a few lines about our "Valentine's 2011" thus far...I say thus far because B and I actually have plans to celebrate our Valentine's Day this coming weekend on the 19th of Feb, with the Army sometimes holidays just have to be shifted around here and there, but we make it work in the end!! We've got hotel reservations at a fabulous place in Seoul, reservations for little Chloe to go to the kennel for the evening, and I just can't simply wait! I'll be sure to post pictures and give all the details, well maybe not ALL the details, but how about the "skinny" of it next week! 

I hope that you and your Valentine had a fabulous evening, day, night out, night in or simply just nothing, none the less hopefully it was wonderfull!! 

Till next time! 
XOXO from Korea! 
-Mrs. GC 

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Because Any Deserving Blog Needs...

PHOTOS!!!

**I've come to realize that the last couple, okay ALOT, let's be honest...I don't know when I've posted pictures last...so here's a few to hold you over until I can get some edited on Picasa! :) 






And...we can't leave our little buddy Clubber out! Soon (4 months to be exact) well for sure be able to have a brother/sister photoshoot stateside...stay tuned!! 

Till next time-

XOXO! The Whole "GC" Gang from Korea! 

What A Word: "Work"...

...thankfully, most days my work days are just plain fun! I've only shared bits and pieces about the work I do here in Korea, so I thought I would take a moment to share a little bit more information, okay ALOT more!!  (also, so that I have a journaled entry when I get back to the states and leave this unique job!!)

So, you ask, what is it exactly that I do on a daily basis? Well it goes something a little like this... I am the program manager of a Family Outreach center, fondly know as the Pear Blossom Family Outreach Center (PBFOC). This program falls under the umbrella of an official Army program by the name of ACS (Army Community Services), within ACS there are several components of other programs, the branch upon which we sit is "Outreach." **You can read more about our department/program HERE.

 We have 3 of these centers in the area inwhich we live here in Korea (Area I), and each center has it's own manager- hints 2 co-workers for me! This program is specific to both the Army, and Korea to be exact. The program was started back in the late 1980's (I know, I was like 3 and 4 years old!!) by a General's spouse (Ms. Woodall) who lived here in our area and observed families who also lived in the area, yet the living conditions were not half as pleasant as what they are now. Ms. Woodall observed these families cooking in the single soldier's barracks area, bathing at the on post gymnasium areas and generally just using the public Army facilites as routes of survival. Needless to say, 30 years out from the Korean War, the housing ammenities in this country still had much to be desired. **Note, this was before the Army program of Command Sponsorship, these ever so brave families were so very committed to their soldiers that they made the sacrifice of giving up such things as desired living conditions, inorder to follow their soldier to Korea in support of their soldiers career- Thank goodness we now have Command Sponsorship (more on that during a latter post!)**

At the time the PBFOC program was established there were 6 bases in this region of Korea- 3 of them have since closed. The first center was opened in 1989 at Camp Casey (now USAG Casey), and was build by the families, the garrison, the Korean Service Corp and a local group of college students. The amenities within the cottage (as it was formerly called), were donated by the Army. Amenites that were provided included a fully furnished living room, with TV; kitchen with stoves and cookware, indoor and outdoor children's playareas, nursery area, laundry room with several machines, arts and crafts room and eventually computer/technology labs. The first cottage was originally named Ehwa, after the university in which local Korean students volunteered their time. Later, 5 additional cottages/outreach centers were built and opened, with the most current center opening in 2000. Currently, there are 3 centers open (USAG Red Cloud, USAG Casey and Camp Stanley). I am the proud program manager at the Camp Stanley center!

Currently, I have about 65 families registered at my center (I manage the smallest of the centers). I produce a monthly calendar each month with all sorts of networking and educational activities for both the families and children to participate in. For an example of some of the activities planned, I'll give you the run down of February's calendar:
- we attended a Zumba class at Camp Casey
- several spouses chipped in and we spent a day learning how to make Tamales, we then took the leftovers home to store in the freezer for later (YUM!)
-we had a family Superbowl Breakfast on Superbowl MONDAY (yes, you read that right: Breakfast, Football, Monday = what we do in Korea when the game is playing 13 hours after your current time!!)
-for 3 Friday's this month we are hosting Military Spouse Resiliency training (this is the first 3 of 6 modules, which we will wrap up in March). This training is an optional training for spouses, but in my opinion is a vitally important resource for equipping spouses with tools that will help them to succeed and overcome, successfully work through the stressors of military life!)
-I have a self-created (which most of my programs are), program named "Married to the Military Monday", and for this coming Monday Feb. 14th, we will be kickin' it back "old school" and gathering together to have an old fashioned Valentine's Day Party! I've encouraged both the spouses and their children to create (or purchase) Valentine's Cards and we will share them with each other after we decorate our Valentine's Day bags. We'll wrap up the afternoon with some special cookies that I'm going to bake, the movie "Valentine's Day" and sharing ideas as to how we "keep the romance in our relationship!"
-this month (as with all month's), we will take our regular cultural exploration trip, and this time we're going somewhere that I think most spouses haven't been- the Seoul Folk Flea Market! I know we are all hoping to find some unique Korean keepsakes!
-later this month, we will have a "Budgeting Class" hosted by our favorite financial guru, Ms. Doris from the ACS (Army Community Services) Financial Program
-to round down the month, we have an FRG who plans to use the kitchen facilities for an entire day to bake cookies for their companies soldiers and an FRG (Family Readiness Group) bake sale!

**Whew, if you're still with me!!** What a month! :) This is a typical glimsp of a month around the center, and yes, stragegically planned by yours truly!

In addition to planning, hosting and coordinating all kinds of events; I also use (on a daily basis) my ever so trusty "social work skills" to help the spouses problem solve, trouble shoot (I like the phrasing better), issues they may be having. Some examples could be: "How do I get signed up for the WIC (Women, Infants and Children- just like in the states) overseas program?", "Where can I take a stress management class?", "When will be a good day for me to do my laundry, I have ALOT?", "I'm really missing my husband because of _______________ (fill in with whatever the Army has him doing), what can I do to keep myself busy?", "HELP! I'm pregnant!" (My response, Yes Honey! It's in the water...let's talk!!), "Do you know how to get intouch with CYSS services (Child and Youth Services), I want to sign my child up for __________.", "My husband and I are not getting along lately..." (again, my response...let's talk!!) These are just a few of the examples of some of the topics I help these spouses work through! I can truly say that I am honored to be able to help them work through simply somedays just the everyday grind, and other days they may feel like their world is crashing down...but together we work through it! Luckily, I remind them that I too am an Army spouse and I too feel the same exact way they do on a time to time bases, it's natural and it is going to happen...it's "the Army!" Fortunatly, we also have a great group of spouses who frequent the center often, these ladies I hope are able to provide and recieve as much strength, laughs and support as we all lend each other from time to time.

**I'm getting a little off topic now, so to go back to my "job"... To touch on other items I am responsible for they include the administrative side of the house. I have recently been asked to be the Team Leader for all of the Outreach Center managers! Which I really appreciate the opportunity, and on the positive side if I'm totally awful at it, they only have to put up with me for 4 months! ha! :) Within this role, I will be working with the other managers to make sure that each center has proper coverage as managers need time off, we will be looking into standardizing several procedures inorder to make sure that each center is fluid in operations, we will also be working on our marketing tools and reviewing lots of paperwork that goes into the admin side of the house, as well as working with several senior spouses to host a "Wellness Seminar" in our area for spouses and children coming up in March, and later in April we will help with a Children's Parade!!

Well, I hope you stayed with me till the end! If you didn't I'm sorry for the rambling yet, I hope you did find it informing!! I hope you enjoyed this little bit of what I do Monday through Friday, workin' from nine till 5 (ha! who am I kidding some nights my phone rings at 10 oclock!) That's okay, I'm a spouse too and I get it! :)


Till Next time-

XOXO from Korea!
Mrs. GC