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Friday, February 18, 2011

MilSpouse Friday Fill-In


Hello Ya'll! From the Land of the Morning (Cold) Calm!! aka- Korea!!!
I have recently stumbled across a super cool blog, thanks to my real life and bloggy friend Megan over at peacock evolution; she is a super cool fellow MilSpouse friend of mine, with many talents including amature photography!! Go check her out, you won't be disappointed!! 
Okay, so back on topic! THANKS to Megan, I ran across another fellow MilSpouse over at Wife of a Sailor, who has this wonderful Friday fill in for us spouses! So of course, I had to join! This is my first week and I hope you will continue checking back each week for answers to these fun questions! So here goes... Enjoy!!

1)  What is your favorite MilSpouse blog (not including Wife of a Sailor who we all love, or your own)? Honestly, I really LoVe all of the blogs that I am following, but if you're making me choose just one I'd have to say I really enjoy Shay's blog over at The Nelson Diaries. She is a really energetic, fun loving gal who always has some great posts about life in general!   

2) What are your favorite perks about your s/o being deployed (we all know there are perks)? I must be honest and say that I've never experienced a deployment...YET, that is! I'm sure our turn is coming soon! Although, I have experienced my fair share of field exercises for weeks on end while being here in Korea. So the perks to those would be the following: I get extra time to myself (and let's face it we all need a little bit more of that), I can deep clean the house without any interruptions, hit the gym as much as I want, watch what I want on TV, there's no obligation to cook dinner nightly, and the old trusty saying of "distance makes the heart grow fonder", well it really does in our case. During the time he is gone, I think we both get the opportunity to reflect on our marriage and how important we are too each other, because the reunions are just exciting and it's like our love for each other sparkes even more than before he left!!! 

3) How long did you date your s/o before getting engaged? Married? We met during the summer between my sophmore and junior years of college. We dated and were engaged for a total of 2 1/2 years before we married, and as of this past December we have been married for 3 years!! WOW! Time is flying by!!

4)  What do you think your s/o would do if s/he wasn’t in the military? I think B would be doing 1 of 3 things: still working at the sales job he had before returning to active duty from the Army reserves, in school full time working on his bachelor's degree or working in law enforcement. 

5) If you could talk to the Secretary of (fill in your appropriate branch) what is one suggestion you would like to bring to their attention in order to improve the lives of military families? I would definately choose to speak with the Sect. of the Army, and I would want to bring awareness to the fact that I believe there should be mandatory trainings for MilSpouse's to take. These trainings should include some of the current courses offered by the Army including AFTB and Resiliency courses. I personally think that if spouses would equip themselves with the proper knowledge of how the military (Army) operates, it would make their day to day lives so much more fluid!

Till Next Time-

XOXO from Korea!!
-Mrs. GC

**You're Welcome, to those of you who I "shouted out" on my blog!!**





Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentine's Day 2011- Part I



Hey Ya'll!! I just wanted to stop in real quick and write a few lines about our "Valentine's 2011" thus far...I say thus far because B and I actually have plans to celebrate our Valentine's Day this coming weekend on the 19th of Feb, with the Army sometimes holidays just have to be shifted around here and there, but we make it work in the end!! We've got hotel reservations at a fabulous place in Seoul, reservations for little Chloe to go to the kennel for the evening, and I just can't simply wait! I'll be sure to post pictures and give all the details, well maybe not ALL the details, but how about the "skinny" of it next week! 

I hope that you and your Valentine had a fabulous evening, day, night out, night in or simply just nothing, none the less hopefully it was wonderfull!! 

Till next time! 
XOXO from Korea! 
-Mrs. GC 

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Because Any Deserving Blog Needs...

PHOTOS!!!

**I've come to realize that the last couple, okay ALOT, let's be honest...I don't know when I've posted pictures last...so here's a few to hold you over until I can get some edited on Picasa! :) 






And...we can't leave our little buddy Clubber out! Soon (4 months to be exact) well for sure be able to have a brother/sister photoshoot stateside...stay tuned!! 

Till next time-

XOXO! The Whole "GC" Gang from Korea! 

What A Word: "Work"...

...thankfully, most days my work days are just plain fun! I've only shared bits and pieces about the work I do here in Korea, so I thought I would take a moment to share a little bit more information, okay ALOT more!!  (also, so that I have a journaled entry when I get back to the states and leave this unique job!!)

So, you ask, what is it exactly that I do on a daily basis? Well it goes something a little like this... I am the program manager of a Family Outreach center, fondly know as the Pear Blossom Family Outreach Center (PBFOC). This program falls under the umbrella of an official Army program by the name of ACS (Army Community Services), within ACS there are several components of other programs, the branch upon which we sit is "Outreach." **You can read more about our department/program HERE.

 We have 3 of these centers in the area inwhich we live here in Korea (Area I), and each center has it's own manager- hints 2 co-workers for me! This program is specific to both the Army, and Korea to be exact. The program was started back in the late 1980's (I know, I was like 3 and 4 years old!!) by a General's spouse (Ms. Woodall) who lived here in our area and observed families who also lived in the area, yet the living conditions were not half as pleasant as what they are now. Ms. Woodall observed these families cooking in the single soldier's barracks area, bathing at the on post gymnasium areas and generally just using the public Army facilites as routes of survival. Needless to say, 30 years out from the Korean War, the housing ammenities in this country still had much to be desired. **Note, this was before the Army program of Command Sponsorship, these ever so brave families were so very committed to their soldiers that they made the sacrifice of giving up such things as desired living conditions, inorder to follow their soldier to Korea in support of their soldiers career- Thank goodness we now have Command Sponsorship (more on that during a latter post!)**

At the time the PBFOC program was established there were 6 bases in this region of Korea- 3 of them have since closed. The first center was opened in 1989 at Camp Casey (now USAG Casey), and was build by the families, the garrison, the Korean Service Corp and a local group of college students. The amenities within the cottage (as it was formerly called), were donated by the Army. Amenites that were provided included a fully furnished living room, with TV; kitchen with stoves and cookware, indoor and outdoor children's playareas, nursery area, laundry room with several machines, arts and crafts room and eventually computer/technology labs. The first cottage was originally named Ehwa, after the university in which local Korean students volunteered their time. Later, 5 additional cottages/outreach centers were built and opened, with the most current center opening in 2000. Currently, there are 3 centers open (USAG Red Cloud, USAG Casey and Camp Stanley). I am the proud program manager at the Camp Stanley center!

Currently, I have about 65 families registered at my center (I manage the smallest of the centers). I produce a monthly calendar each month with all sorts of networking and educational activities for both the families and children to participate in. For an example of some of the activities planned, I'll give you the run down of February's calendar:
- we attended a Zumba class at Camp Casey
- several spouses chipped in and we spent a day learning how to make Tamales, we then took the leftovers home to store in the freezer for later (YUM!)
-we had a family Superbowl Breakfast on Superbowl MONDAY (yes, you read that right: Breakfast, Football, Monday = what we do in Korea when the game is playing 13 hours after your current time!!)
-for 3 Friday's this month we are hosting Military Spouse Resiliency training (this is the first 3 of 6 modules, which we will wrap up in March). This training is an optional training for spouses, but in my opinion is a vitally important resource for equipping spouses with tools that will help them to succeed and overcome, successfully work through the stressors of military life!)
-I have a self-created (which most of my programs are), program named "Married to the Military Monday", and for this coming Monday Feb. 14th, we will be kickin' it back "old school" and gathering together to have an old fashioned Valentine's Day Party! I've encouraged both the spouses and their children to create (or purchase) Valentine's Cards and we will share them with each other after we decorate our Valentine's Day bags. We'll wrap up the afternoon with some special cookies that I'm going to bake, the movie "Valentine's Day" and sharing ideas as to how we "keep the romance in our relationship!"
-this month (as with all month's), we will take our regular cultural exploration trip, and this time we're going somewhere that I think most spouses haven't been- the Seoul Folk Flea Market! I know we are all hoping to find some unique Korean keepsakes!
-later this month, we will have a "Budgeting Class" hosted by our favorite financial guru, Ms. Doris from the ACS (Army Community Services) Financial Program
-to round down the month, we have an FRG who plans to use the kitchen facilities for an entire day to bake cookies for their companies soldiers and an FRG (Family Readiness Group) bake sale!

**Whew, if you're still with me!!** What a month! :) This is a typical glimsp of a month around the center, and yes, stragegically planned by yours truly!

In addition to planning, hosting and coordinating all kinds of events; I also use (on a daily basis) my ever so trusty "social work skills" to help the spouses problem solve, trouble shoot (I like the phrasing better), issues they may be having. Some examples could be: "How do I get signed up for the WIC (Women, Infants and Children- just like in the states) overseas program?", "Where can I take a stress management class?", "When will be a good day for me to do my laundry, I have ALOT?", "I'm really missing my husband because of _______________ (fill in with whatever the Army has him doing), what can I do to keep myself busy?", "HELP! I'm pregnant!" (My response, Yes Honey! It's in the water...let's talk!!), "Do you know how to get intouch with CYSS services (Child and Youth Services), I want to sign my child up for __________.", "My husband and I are not getting along lately..." (again, my response...let's talk!!) These are just a few of the examples of some of the topics I help these spouses work through! I can truly say that I am honored to be able to help them work through simply somedays just the everyday grind, and other days they may feel like their world is crashing down...but together we work through it! Luckily, I remind them that I too am an Army spouse and I too feel the same exact way they do on a time to time bases, it's natural and it is going to happen...it's "the Army!" Fortunatly, we also have a great group of spouses who frequent the center often, these ladies I hope are able to provide and recieve as much strength, laughs and support as we all lend each other from time to time.

**I'm getting a little off topic now, so to go back to my "job"... To touch on other items I am responsible for they include the administrative side of the house. I have recently been asked to be the Team Leader for all of the Outreach Center managers! Which I really appreciate the opportunity, and on the positive side if I'm totally awful at it, they only have to put up with me for 4 months! ha! :) Within this role, I will be working with the other managers to make sure that each center has proper coverage as managers need time off, we will be looking into standardizing several procedures inorder to make sure that each center is fluid in operations, we will also be working on our marketing tools and reviewing lots of paperwork that goes into the admin side of the house, as well as working with several senior spouses to host a "Wellness Seminar" in our area for spouses and children coming up in March, and later in April we will help with a Children's Parade!!

Well, I hope you stayed with me till the end! If you didn't I'm sorry for the rambling yet, I hope you did find it informing!! I hope you enjoyed this little bit of what I do Monday through Friday, workin' from nine till 5 (ha! who am I kidding some nights my phone rings at 10 oclock!) That's okay, I'm a spouse too and I get it! :)


Till Next time-

XOXO from Korea!
Mrs. GC

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Bulletpoints...

Well bloggie world...Yes, it's been quite sometime,  okay an eternity!! But, I'm here, and I'm back in action!! Whoo hoo! In this post, I intend to update you on the past few months through a few bullet points, hopefully you'll follow along. Yet, before we get started lets cover some ground. We are still stationed here in Korea (about 5 months more to go till we return to the states), I am still working at the Outreach Center on post and B (my husband patient, fantastic man in my life) is still working away with the Army...and best of all- We are LOVIN' life! :) Isn't it just great to love life, love your mate and just to love the simple things! So here goes the update...

September-
*B and I experienced our first Typhoon ever, and of course it was here in Korea.
*My co workers and I hosted a military VIP visit from Washington DC
*We celebrated the Korean holiday of Chusok (basically, the equivalent to American's Thanksgiving)

October-
*B and I booked our trip home for the holidays to NC
*B re-enlisted to the Army for another 6 year contract
*I assisted my co workers with hosting a Domestic Violence Awareness month 5K
*The community association I am a board member on (Kka Chi Community Association), and I hosted a Golf Tournament at Camp Casey Golf Course
*I assisted with my first AFAP (Army Family Action Plan) conference, basically a conference that reviews what is working, what isn't and how the Army can go about fixing issues.
*The spouses from the Outreach Center and I took 2 trips to Seoul, one on a Seoul City Bus Tour, and the second to a fabulous market by the name of Insadong; more about these wonderful places in a later post.

November-
*B and I had a night out on the town to celebrate a good friend of ours 40th Birthday. His wife hosted a group of us at a local italian (yes, I said italian) restaurant (Erus) here in Korea. It was FaNtAbUlOuS I tell you!
*B and I participated in a college fair hosted by the sisters of Delta Sigma Theta, Alumnae chapter here in Korea. I was the representative for my alma mater Barton College. B came along with me to assist with the fair, and he met another fellow college rep/alum who is also stationed here in Korea and is a Naval Criminal Investigator. So yes, my friends NCIS DOES exist! Of course B asked if this fella knew Gibbs! ha!
*B and I did some Christmas shopping for friends and family at a market in Osan
*Our friends Alicia and Rob hosted a delicious Thanksgiving dinner and invited us over. After stuffing our bellys we drank,  indulged in some fabulous Korean wine and played a nice competitive game of Wii!

December-
*B and I celebrated our 3rd Anniversary in the great city of Tokyo! 4 days and 3 nights, it was beautiful!
*We then flew for 16 hours home to Atlanta and then on to RDU for a couple of weeks home for the holidays with our super fantastic friends and family. While home, we attended a thoughtfully hosted holiday party with some of my sorority sisters and their significant others. I also spent a weekend shopping trip with two of my besties Megan and Caroline. My sister and I did some wedding planning in anticipation of her big day, coming up in July!!
*We also met up for lunch with B's besties wife (Simonie), who her husband is currently deployed, but we are praying for a safe return in just a few short weeks!

January-
*B and I spent New Year's 2011 eve at home, and jet lagged! ha! (romantic, I know!) ha!
*I co-hosted a Baby Shower for 6 new mama's at the Outreach Center, and can you believe that they are all having boys!!?!?
*I also co-hosted an FRG meeting for the new year...anyone looking to pick up a new committment in July?? I'm hoping to be able to start training someone for my current FRG (Family Readiness Group) position soon!

Well, there you have it! Our update! Thank goodness for my agenda book, I would have never been able to remember all of this information with out it!

**Be on the lookout for some new posts, and some pictures! I've got a few plans up my sleeve that will hopefully keep me blogging all year long!!**

XOXO! from Korea!

Mrs. GC

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Sunday, August 22, 2010

Another weekend over...ALREADY???

First, I must WELCOME you to our new blog...well, newly improved blog is more like it. I have envisioned updating our blog for quite sometime now, and I wanted something catchy...something that described us! Something unique! So here you have it...a catchy new title and web address!! I've also decided to take our blog off of private, for several reasons; and the main being that alot of our not so tech savy friends and family can't seem to find our blog! Now with that being said, I will continue to be picky as to what I post on our blog and will in Army land be following a little acronym by the name of OPSEC!

Now, on to the title of this blog, is the weekend SERIOUSLY almost over already??? WOW! Time just seems to be rolling by at lightening speed for us recently! Now don't get me wrong, I am quite satisfied with our fast paced lifestyle right now and am more than looking foward to the revolving door in our apartment being taken out of operation for a few months!! :) I hope that B and I will really be able to soak in the fall weather and local festivities this year, now that we are very aquainted with the lay of the land per say! I'm even hoping that we can work on producing yet again a lovely Christmas card picture...so stay posted for updates on those events!

In the mean time, I will continue working at the cottage, while B continues his soldier duties that he does oh so very well...if I do say so myself!

Well, I've blabbered enough for now! Enjoy the new design! Feedback?!?! And stay posted...hopefully I'll be able to produce so much more exciting post than this in the near future!!

Till then...

XOXO from Korea!
Mrs. GC

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Under Construction!


YES! My blog is STILL under construction... I know, I know! (You can thank this Gosh darned field exercise, and the fact that my apt. has once again turned into a revolving door for the month of August!) Although, if you haven't noticed- I've got what I think is a jazzy new title and web address. I will be taking the blog off private settings as well! Now, I will not be advertising my blog on facebook, but I will send private reminder messages the first few times to let everyone know we are still around and blogging! ha! :)

A few blog improvements to look foward too:

1) I'm working on creating my own picture header and editing it with Picasa for the first time.

2) I've also changed the background and am considering doing a 3 column blog and hopefully adding more pictures!

Thus far I've had alot of fun browsing other blogs and getting ideas for ours! (hints why it's also taken me so long to update!)

Stay tuned!!

XOXO from Korea!
Mrs. GC